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= Line of inquiry 3: =

‍‍An inquiry into: ‍‍ How a competition between peers has a results in being an accumulator.
= MEDIA: = = 07/05/2012 Valentina Corzo: = =Book: Drugs and Adictions, what they are?, what they do?= =I read it in the library some days ago.= =Competition among peers has a result of accumulation because this is an addiction so addictions allways have an ending point and a starting point. In this case the starrting point is just a compettion with peers to get stuff and be accepted in popular groups. And as we say in THE KEY CONCEPT OF CHANGE: this will change during time and will have a resut of becoming an accumulators. As my friends say in the past pages of the wiki this is made by the reptilian brain and they make this looking for pleasure and popularity this is why this is and addiction because they repeat and repeat this process of competition.=

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==Most of the kids have been suffering because their prblems at home ( sicological ect ) and they start getting them affected in the social way, they start behaibing in a impropper way with their friends wich it start affecting on their popularity, they really dont know what is happening but they know what they are doing but they dont know they have changed sometimes in a negative way but other times it change in a positive way, they start to search for reasons of why are they not any more popular, until they get maybe i need to be more popular at buying things, they start asking their parents, why dont i have any toy my friends have, they feal guilty because they do know what is happening with their kids so they did/do what they wanted in this ase buying the stuff they like, this problem is not only from the kids it is also parets because they need to say no, they are not the ones that make their kids do that, they needd to put a full stop because they are not really helping them they are perjudicating other kids and mostly them,==

now i understand.
==Well it is kind of the same answer as the other ones both are very similar, well it starts when a kid gets very obsessed with being popular and what people think about them because they don´t have all that cool stuff, they feel bad so for he/she can pass time with them they start buying and buying unnesessary stuff, and also is a problem when parents allow it, and make them company on that stupid process. Sorry for the word but is really true ==

= INTERVIEWS: =

Franchesca Cobo 01/06/12
when we did the interview to Olguita Mogollon she explain us something very interest that we did not think that has to do with that, it has to do with the 3 brains, the frontal cortex the reptil brain and the human brain, a kid become an accumulator because the reptil brain, it is the brain that have the following aspects Example: You have a blackberry and someone tell you oh wow, what a cool cellphone, you feel good ( PLEASURE ) and for having more plearure you start buying more and more things for having the same fealing or the same as you fealed when they told you that.
 * it atacks when you feel bad or attacked
 * is the one tht looks for pleasure
 * when it stop working all this things happens

Sofia Guevara 17/05/2012
Olga Mogollon
 * 1) ==The persons who compete among peers get as a result becoming an accumulator because:they start to compete for popularity or fit in a group,==
 * 2) ==Parents say yes because they feel guilty for not being enough time with their kids or to "express their love."==
 * 3) ==kids learn to feel loved by the material things.==
 * 4) ==So they repeat it for pleasure.==
 * 5) ==They start accumulating stuff that they don’t need==
 * 6) ==The person does not give it away==
 * 7) ==They start allover again when their friends buy something new==

== The kids start thinking with their reptile brain and they just don't know how to use another brain, so they are now obsessed with material things because that's what the reptile brain has tough them so they become accumulators because they can't use another brain anymore. this lots of consequences but the one that affects the most are your emotions. == = =

= SURVEYS: =

= Franchesca Cobo 22/05/12 =

=== well when we did the interviews many people write that competing among their peers is not a problem and some times is kind of find and cool, and most of times funny to compete for who has more toys, well, most of the kids answer and they want to buy the same things as other kids because it s cool to copy or they just want to be like they and there it start the problem, they don't think they are doing bad at buying unnecessary stuff or things they don't need just to have the same things as their peers so they continue doing it until they have their bedroom with piles of toys that they never use and their room is very disorganize in sometimes, on some cases, and the most difficult part is even they have the pile of toys and they don't see as a problem even do they know why do they have all the toys ( TO HAVE THE SAME COOL TOYS AS THEIR FRIENDS ). === = =

= OBSERVATION AND EXPERIENCE: =

Franchesca Cobo
===Well, i have had many experiences in kinder that VALENTINA MARIA CORZO excluded me and i wanted to be with them so i start being a bubble gum and their shadow, then i saw that did not worked so i start thhinking on what can i do to be with them, them the light bulb turn on and i sayd my selves maybe we should have something on commun and i start asking my dad for the toys i wanted not my mum that was my strategy because i knew my mum was going to say NO, then i give up because i coudent so since that day my best friend was ELENA ARANGO ULLOA and i even know how to spell her name, well now we are not the BEST FRIENDS but we still being friends.===