Responsability

Which is the responsibility of the sorounding people? = =

= Synthesis: = ===The responsibility is basically of the parents because they are the ones that buy the stuff because of different things such as being guilty, showing their love... Also because they are the ones who need help the kids stop being an accumulator because the kids dont have a well developed brain so parents need to help them to reflect and stop buying them a lot of things. Parents need to get into action and change! Stop buying all the things kids want because the negative effects can come out any moment.=== ===But the responsibility is not only of the kids parents. Kids also have responsabilitie in this problem offcourse becouse they need to reflect and accept when their parents tell them that they have to reflect.They need to:===
 * ===Kids should not let themselves influenced by their peers===
 * ===They need to reflect when their parents help them.===
 * ===Try to convince their friends that this is problem is affecting their friendship.===
 * ===Give away the things they don't use===
 * ===Be responsable with what they do and accept that they are humans and they can make mistakes.===

= INTERVIEWS: = =

Created by: Sofia Guevara 10/05/2012= Interview to: Olgita Mogollon 10/05/2012 Why do parents buy so much stuff their kids? Many parents buy stuff to theyre kids because they are absent and feel guilty and then they give them something to make their kids forget about it. But also because it activates the reptilian brain because of the hierarchy because they feel more powerfull because when they buy it means that they have the money so they feel superior from other and because they think they are being good parents.

Do the kids realize that it is a problem? Kids do not realize it's a problem because they have no capasidad and their frontal cortex have not been developed so they need a model (In This case parents). Sometimes they may realize it but parents have to make the change.

Do parents realize that this is happening? Some parents realize but it seems normal to them. And do not know that they are forming an accumulator kid and has strong concequences. they dont act because they are also not sure of what to do.

So, wich is their responsibility? Their responsibility is not buying so many thing to them and making the kids notice that it is a problem and they need to stop but mostly they need to be the model for their kids because in this case the brain steam of the kids is not so matture for them to be able to stop by their self so they need the help of an adult = = = =

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=Sofia Guevara 15/05/2012 Valentina Corzo eddited spelling.=
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What is the responsibility of the accumulator?
= = = The accumulator have a lot of responsabilities such as: = = = = What is the responsibility of the people that soround the accumulator? = = The people that soround thehave a lot of responsibility too such as :The responsibility of =
 * === The responsibility of the accumulator at the begginig is not leting himself be influenced by the peer pressure. ===
 * === When they had already bought the stuff they must recognize it and try to change or stop doing it. ===
 * === Also they can try to convince their friends that are doing the same thing to stop doing it. ===
 * === They have to give away the things they don't use ===
 * ** When parents or others tell them they have to give away stuff they can't get mad **
 * ** They need to reflect when people tell them what is happening and don't ignore it at all. **
 * === Be responsable with their actions, admit they make a mistake ===
 * = The responsibility of the people that soround the accumulator at the bigging is not to buy the stuff that they dont need ( this is the responsibility of the parents) =
 * === then when thye are already accumulators the responsability of the people that sorounds theme is to tell them that it is not a good thing and that it can cause a lot of conflict . ===
 * === They should inform the accumulators about this problem. ===
 * === They should give the things away even if the accumuators don't want ===
 * === They need to make them stop! Show them why the things they are doing are wrong ===

= QUESTION AND ANSWERS IN A WEB PAGE: [] = =Valentina Corzo 09/05/2012= = But also they are some parents who are really stirct. For example some parents who have a 14 year old girl who does not have her own computer,cellphone,tv or icluding HER OWN IPOD! This stuff she don't have are some things you expect a 14 year old girl has! = = Instead: Instead they have a daughter who loves to talk to them, listen to music in the car (and sing along with her mother and her Dad!), sings in Church, dances Scottish dancing, Swimming, loves her animals and horse riding, campfires in the yard. All this becouse she does not have the things that distract her to be with her family and she lives happy with it! Her mother declares: "Good parents buy their children everything they NEED, but not everything they WANT! There is a huge difference!" =

= Valentina Corzo 10/05/2012 = = QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS IN A WEB PAGE: [] = = Some parents think it is their responsabilitie to be fair. If one of their kids want a Abracrombie Jacket the other kids MUST have to get one too. = = For some kids it is no so easy to get the things they want. Normally they have to work to get it and some people actually do it. so normally this kids NEVER ask things to their parents,the things they have they earned them.For exaple a girI has an iPod because she made shure the entire house was clean,and the dishes were washed,and make the laundry. Another example is the one of this boys his dad bought him a $500 Nintendo 64 pokemon edition for my birthday because he was good during that year. =

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I think that the responsibility is
= AND MORE, THIS ARE SOME IDEAS! =
 * = STOP BUYING THINGS =
 * = STOP ALLOWING PEOPLE INFLUENCE YOU TO BUY THINGS =
 * = REFLECT AND SEE THE PROBLEM OF WHAT THEY ARE DOING =
 * = ADMIT THEY MAKE MISTAKES =
 * = GIVE AWAY SOME STUFF =

Maria Jose Soto FOR ME, THE MAIN REPONSABILITY IS OF THE PARENTS, THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES WHO CAN CONTROL THEIR KIDS FROM ASKING TO MUCH AND THEY CAN ALSO HELP THEM REFLECT ABOUT THAT.

franchesca cobo well, when someone is competing with peers there are many responsabilities not only for the compiting person/kid also for people surrounding them like parents: they should say no to the kids when they ask for the newes and coolest toy.

Sofia Guevara
We know that all the people have different responsabilities: